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caring for children
B --is for Boundaries. Set specific limits, and make clear the repercussions if those limits are exceeded.
C --is for Consistency. Hold to the same principles and practices.
D-- is for Discipline. Make the punishment fit the crime. Never discipline in anger.
E --is for Example. Children are in greater need of models than critics. Set a good example.
F-- is for Forgiveness. Practice it, and teach the importance of forgiving.
G-- is for Giving. Teach the joy of giving, not only to family and friends, but to strangers in need.
H --is for Humour. Keep your sense of humour. Promote laughter with your children.
I --is for Imagination. Be creative, and play with your children. Make up stories or songs when you read and sing with them.
J --is for Justice. Be fair, and insist that they be fair, also.
going abroad
A good article for NRI’s living abroad from rediff
http://www.rediff.com/money/2007/oct/30spec1.htm
October 30, 2007
Going abroad to work is not just about the correct stamps on your passport. Your investments, in India or abroad, need to go through the appropriate entry and exit points.
Deepak Khanna, 40, is leaving for Australia on a new work assignment soon. He doesn't plan to emigrate now, but wants to work abroad for a few years. While the thought of a new life in a new country is exciting, Khanna is also worried about what he is leaving behind - his investments, assets, and loans.
Its a mistake
If a barber makes a mistake,
It's a NEW STYLE
If a driver makes a mistake,
It is a NEW PATH
If a engineer makes a mistake,
It is a NEW VENTURE
If parents makes a mistake,
It is a NEW GENERATION
If a politician makes a mistake,
It is a NEW LAW
If a scientist makes a mistake,
It is a NEW INVENTION
If a tailor makes a mistake,
It is a NEW FASHION
If a teacher makes a mistake ,
It is a NEW THEORY
If our boss makes a mistake,
It is a NEW IDEA
If an employee makes a mistake,
It is a MISTAKE ONLY.
Effective Speaking
I got this from one of my favourite yahoo groups and I post it here. It is useful 
EFECTIVE: Good speaking skills will make it easier to get your point across.
Configuring GlassFish App Server with Apache httpd
Here are the step by step instructions to configure GlassFish App server with apache web server.
Install & configure mod_jk:
Install apache web server and install the corresponding mod_jk. For instance if you have installed apache web server 2.2.4, go to the connectors web site of apache and download from the binaries mod_jk of the corresponding version of your installed web server. Then simply remove the version and place it in the modules directory according to your OS (I use windows OS and place it in C:/apacheroot/modules/ )
Create Workers File:
Create workers properties file inside the conf directory. If there is no sample then create it.Here is one sample you can put
pappu jokes
TEACHER : What is the chemical formula for water?
PAPPU : "HIJKLMNO! "!!
TEACHER : What are you talking about?
PAPPU : Yesterday you said it's H to O !
TEACHER : PAPPU, go to the map and find North America.
PAPPU : Here it is!
TEACHER : Correct. Now, class, who discovered America?
CLASS : PAPPU!
TEACHER : PAPPU, how do you spell "crocodile"?
PAPPU : "K-R-O-K-O-D- A-I-L"
TEACHER : No, that's wrong
PAPPU : Maybe it's wrong, but you asked me how I spell it!
TEACHER : PAPPU, give me a sentence starting with "I".
PAPPU : I is...
TEACHER : No, PAPPU. Always say, "I am."
PAPPU : All right... "I am the ninth letter of the alphabet."
mail to gates from banta singh
A very funny stuff 
Changing Our Negative Thoughts
We all have negative thoughts that pop up now and then. They are little cause for concern unless we focus on them. When we focus on negative thoughts too long we can trigger the fight-or-flight response whose whole duty is to prepare us for action. We end up in a high state of alarm that we call stress.
When stressed it's hard to 'catch our breath' because breathing is more shallow. It's hard to swallow, our hands may sweat, our heart beat speeds up and our hands, our head, or even our whole body may start to shake. Stress is hard on the body and can deplete our energy leading to feelings of helplessness and despair. Long term stress can increase your risk for some health problems, like depression. Stress triggers changes in our bodies that can compromise our immune system—making us more likely to get sick. People who live high-stressed lives generally aren't able to fight off illness as well.
How your brain works
My daddy
One of the nice ppt presentations i got about being a father
10 Commandments of Marriage
Well I am tired of hearing marriage jokes but still it entertains 
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